"I won't let you get rid of me - how about that! I miss my wife - I love you ...
You .... Complete Me"

Jerry Maguire (played by Tom Cruise) is the story of a man who, one day, woke up and knew he did not like who he was, or rather, 'his place in the world'. This 1996 film was nominated for 'Best Film' and 'Best Actor' (for Tom Cruise) at the Academy Awards. Cuba Gooding Jnr won the 'Best Supporting Actor' Oscar and Cruise won the 'Best Actor' Golden Globe for his performance. Thus, it is likely that you have heard much about this film. It is of very high quality and involves a series of complexities which are part of Maguire's life, particularly his life *after* he is 'let go' by the large sporting agency company he works for. The component of the story which is relevant here though is that of the relationship between Jerry and the lonely single mother, Dorothy, who initially loves him from afar.

Early on in the movie we see Dorothy straining to hear Jerry's conversation whilst they're on a plane trip on which he is flying first class and she is back in economy. She listens as he tells of his vaguely romantic proposal to his 'then' fiancé and we watch as loneliness becomes painfully evident on her face. Dorothy encounters Jerry (who actually remembers that she is the accountant at his place of work) at the airport just as her son, Ray, goes missing. Jerry helps the distraught mother find her playful little boy who is riding on the luggage conveyer belt. As Jerry bids them both farewell Dorothy stares longingly after this handsome star of the hour.

From the airport scene is when Jerry's life begins to fall down. Cutting a long story short, he is fired, betrayed and left as a 'loser'. He ends up with one client and a faithful follower from work - Dorothy. She gave up her stable job to go and work for a man she admired and loved. Together they work on taking Rod Tidwall to the top, but in the process of business Jerry becomes conveniently attracted to Dorothy. She, being already wrapped up in emotion for him due to the fact that he seems to be the perfect man for she *and* her son to love, lets him in.

After a short time in marriage though, it appears to be that Jerry "really really 
likes" Dorothy but "really loves" Ray. However, Dorothy can not live like that. This is a heart wrenching part of the movie because we have seen the happiness Dorothy gained as a result of getting the man she loved so much but had once seemed so unreachable. Now she actually has to let him go. At this point in Jerry's life it seemed that he was just staying because he really could *not* be alone and because Dorothy had been so 'loyal' to him.

So Jerry goes off on his own and helps battle through the life and times of his client, Rod. Time only proves to force Jerry to grow up for, under the influence of Rod, he learns to love and really want his wife. After a victory play for Rod, one would expect the man who has succeeded once again to be totally happy. However, Jerry looks sadly at Rod who is sobbing ecstatically on the phone to his wife, and then discovers true meaning. Jerry begins to run until he finds his way back home. In an emotional scene set before a group of man-hating women, Jerry pours out his heart and his newly discovered true feelings for Dorothy, telling her that he can't be happy unless he can share it all with her. And what does Dorothy say to this??

"Shut up... just shut up -
You had me from hello...."

Everyone I know left this movie smiling, and why shouldn't they have? This movie portrayed realistic elements of life and proved that lonely hearts can find the love of their life. Although hard times come by, you eventually realise those who you love, and the love of the family is one of the most beautiful things you can gain.

By the way, a true romantic who comes out of this movie just can not get by without listening to
'Secret Garden' by Bruce Springsteen.
This can be found on the Columbia album (Bruce Springsteen's) GREATEST HITS
and features of the Epic soundtrack
JERRY MAGUIRE; MUSIC FROM THE MOTION PICTURE

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